Chicago Suburban Family

Senior Resources

Terra Vista of Oakbrook Terrace…

By  | 

Ask the Expert: Advice on Alzheimer’s and dementia care from Natalie McFarland, Executive Director of Terra Vista of Oakbrook Terrace

  1. “Mom and I have always been close. But since she’s been diagnosed with Alzheimer’s disease, there are times when I feel I am the mother and she is the child. How do I best embrace my new role and help her without feeling too sad or resentful?”
  2. No matter how old you are, it is unsettling when you become the parent to your parent. Caregivers experience a wide array of emotions – anxiety, depression, complete exhaustion, irritability, lack of concentration and perhaps even their own health problems – as they struggle to embrace their new role.

Doing it successfully takes time, patience and self-forgiveness. Here are some tips and insights that might help:

  • Make some “me” time.
  • Watch your diet, exercise and get plenty of rest.
  • Reach out to family and friends.
  • Take advantage of respite programs.

You can be a loving caregiver to your mother while being a “best friend” to yourself. With the right resources and planning combined with a strong support system, you can and will feel more in control. Call 630.473.9545 today to speak with Natalie and learn about the support that is waiting for you!

You must be logged in to post a comment Login